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Massage
enhances the love and intimate communication between parent and
baby. It soothes and strengthens the baby’s body and helps to
relieve problems such as colic and restlessness. It promotes
relaxation, emotional nourishment and special time for you both.
Baby
Massage is just light, gentle stroking done in a rhythmical way. We
do this almost instinctively to any small creature, particularly
when it is restless, uncomfortable or frightened.
Babies
are touched a lot just in the normal course of being cared for
- every day when they are picked up, have their nappy changed
or are rocked to sleep. Massage is part of this – it adds a little
bit of extra stroking which brings pleasure and relaxation to you
both.
All
babies benefit from massage but some need it more than others.
Tense
or irritable babies who cry a lot and may suffer from colic can be
encouraged to relax with warm, gentle stroking. Babies born
prematurely or with a disability, or who have been ill, also learn
that massage is a warm, pleasurable exchange between themselves and
their parents.
Massage
can also help a baby become aware of its own body. He or she will
often gaze fixedly at an arm or leg while it is being massaged.
Stroking a part that has been sore or painful, perhaps after
surgery, can help a baby forget the painful procedure and teach them
after all, touch is pleasurable.
Baby
massage can begin as early as you wish. When your baby is very new,
use soft gentle strokes. As he or she grows stronger, so can your
touch.
Do
not be afraid to stroke firmly. You will find the baby enjoys being
handled and massaged in such a way that communicates both your love
and your confidence.
A
tiny baby may only tolerate five to ten minutes of massage, while an
older one may enjoy twenty to thirty minutes.
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