I have a friend
named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch
in San Ysidro. He has let me use his house to
put on fund-raising
events to raise money for youth at risk
programs.
The last time I
was there he introduced me by saying, "I
want to tell you why I let Jack use my horse. It
all goes back to
a story about a young man who was the son of an
itinerant horse
trainer who would go from stable to stable, race
track to race
track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
horses. As a
result, the boy's high school career was
continually interrupted.
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a
paper about what he
wanted to be and do when he grew up.
"That night
he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal
of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about
his dream in
great detail and he even drew a diagram of a
200-acre ranch,
showing the location of all the buildings, the
stables and the
track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a
4,000-square-foot
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
"He put a
great deal of his heart into the project and the
next day he handed it in to his teacher. Two
days later he
received his paper back. On the front page was a
large red F with
a note that read, `See me after class.'
"The boy
with the dream went to see the teacher after class
and asked, `Why did I receive an F?'
"The teacher
said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young
boy like you. You have no money. You come from
an itinerant
family. You have no resources. Owning a horse
ranch requires a
lot of money. You have to buy the land. You have
to pay for the
original breeding stock and later you'll have to
pay large stud
fees. There's no way you could ever do it.' Then
the teacher
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a
more realistic
goal, I will reconsider your grade.'
"The boy
went home and thought about it long and hard. He
asked his father what he should do. His father
said, `Look, son,
you have to make up your own mind on this.
However, I think it is
a very important decision for you.'
"Finally, after sitting with it
for a week, the boy turned in the same paper,
making no changes at
all.
He stated, “You can
keep the F and I'll keep my dream."
Monty then turned
to the assembled group and said, "I tell
you this story because you are sitting in my
4,000-square-foot
house in the middle of my 200-acre horse ranch.
I still have that
school paper framed over the fireplace." He
added, "The best part
of the story is that two summers ago that same
schoolteacher
brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a
week." When the
teacher was leaving, he said, “Look, Monty, I
can tell you this
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of
a dream stealer.
During those years I stole a lot of kids'
dreams. Fortunately you
had enough gumption not to give up on
yours."
"Don't let
anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no
matter what." |